Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Is this really a good idea? By: Jess

Here we are, September 16th, less than a month to departure, and I still ask myself daily if this whole "I am going around the world with my two best friends!" thing is really that great of an idea. At first, it all seems so simple. We hop on a plane, brand-new packs strapped to our eager backs, our heads bursting with ideas and destinations, our fresh, clean faces smiling and laughing in anticipation, and after we get off the plane we have the most idyllic, life-changing 12 months of our lives. Usually the introductory sections of travel books promises us just that. They even give us pages and pages of clean hostel rooms and friendly looking natives and colorful animals and ancient sites to marvel at. Simple.

However, after the first 50 pages or so, these shiny travel books of possibility tend to turn into dictionaries of death. They list EVERY disease that ANYONE has EVER contracted in the ENTIRE country and warn us to get shots IMMEDIATELY (Japanese Encephalitis, anyone?). They warn us against unstable local governments, pickpockets, having every single thing in our possession being stolen. Personally, the thought of giving up fashion for a year, and rotating three t-shirts was a horror I had to deal with months ago. And now, on top of the fashion crisis and potential coup d'etat , you are telling me that I might not be showering as regularly as I like? Is this really a good idea?

After graduating this past spring, we have each had our moments of ups and downs with the trip. The concept of the trip itself has also changed and morphed as we have researched and dreamed and talked about exactly what we want to do and see at this young, curious moment in our lives. Speaking for myself, I am not going to say that I was always, 100% sure of the logic of this whole trip idea. The more "logical" option was to do what around 80% of my graduating class did - move to a big city (New York City), get a good job (sell your soul to an investment bank) and be content with making a lot of money and hanging out with your friends from college who have joined you in similar pursuits (wish you had done something different with your life). But ultimately I don't think that either Katy, Laura or myself are willing to settle for that just yet, if ever. The world is so much bigger than Manhattan, or Los Angeles (its true!) and there are so many different opportunities out there that we can't even fathom as the young 22/23 year olds that we are. We want to go out and see some cool stuff, and we are ready for the downsides and hardships that go along with it. The key is be be happy and productive in the moment, and learn as much as we possibly can about ourselves and the great, big world.

And I think that the three of us can safely say just that when we ask ourselves if this is really a good idea. We are shooting for the stars here, people! We are doing something different! We are taking the road less traveled! We are hitting the curveball! We are doing that thing that cliches are born form, and poetry is written about!

In the end, I think this is truly the best idea ever.

5 comments:

pam said...

Hi Gallies- this is Laura's friend Pam from Rochester. I am good buddies with Laura and her Mom. I wanted to see if this site works so I am posting you. First of all I know you will have a wonderful time and you will be SAFE and use your incredible collective brain power to your advantage. This will be a great experience...be sure to write to all of us here at home... we will be waiting to hear from team Laura,Katie,Jess. When you get to BA Argentina be sure to look up Brian Byrnes-(ask Laura) you can Google him and see some of his reports on BA on his web site- he has at least one story for all travelers to the country so that he does not repeat himself. So here is my wish for you all: eat (but be careful)read something new on your trip, forgive one another on the spot, learn more about yourself and the world, miss home and and call your family a lot. Love to the team- Pam Rodgers

mcaimi said...

OMG Jess, I LOVE you're blog. I think you're going to have super amounts of fun and you're all gonna learn tons about the rest of the world that those soul-less investment bankers could only dream about.

Don't forget about my request for this blog though...I want a daily updated (or ASAP) scorecard of who took victory that day: you or the world.

I ♥ you.

Uncle Paul and Aunt Debbie said...

Hi Jess, Laura and Katie!!

This is Jess's Uncle Paul, Aunt Debbie, and cousins Matt and A.J.!!

A.J. wants to know if you are going to Antarctica. (Maybe next time, huh?)

This blog is WONDERFUL!! Totally happy, spirited and safe adventures to you!

We Love you!!

Datty said...

And that has made all the difference.
Love, Datty

jtull7 said...

This is Katy's Dad. You go, gals!